Well, it’s official. You’re 2 years old. I really can’t believe it. I’m looking at the first picture I ever took of you – I was still being attended to by our wonderful doctor when I snapped this one of your mama holding you and smiling the biggest smile I’ve ever seen. And in a little while, I’ll be sitting on the floor while you use me as a human jungle gym and tell me all about your day.
Last year I wrote to you about all the things you accomplished in your first year of life. I hope to make that a tradition, though I’m sure eventually people will get sick of seeing it on the internet and I’ll just jot down a few bullet points on a post-it to save for your future spouse to laugh at. In the meantime, here’s a look at year 2. It’s been a good one:
- People still talk about your hair. And they think we’ve never had it cut. This means they’ve never had to try to keep you distracted through an estimated 15 trips to the salon.
- I’m always amazed by your smarts. Before you turned 2, you could say your alphabet and you knew the letters and some full words by sight. You can count to 10 (13 on a good day), point to about 10 body parts, and your favorite TV show is still Jeopardy. I’ll take smarty-pants toddlers for $1000, Alex.
- As smart as you are, you took your time finding your words. You understood us early, and you babbled for months in a dialect that can only be called Rigbese. But it wasn’t until you were just shy of your second birthday that you started reliably using words we could recognize. The list of your first real words is pretty diverse: dog, apple, violin, please, thank you (you say “ta” like a sweet little British kid), flower, cookie, and house. Once you started, the words came like a flood. Every day I hear you say a word I didn’t know was in your vocabulary.
- One of my favorite Rigbese words has been “BEEE-AAAHHH.” No, you are not requesting a lager in Maine. This is your word for please. Don’t know why. Don’t care. It’s just cute.
- One of my least favorite Rigbese words is “pettit.” I can’t begin to figure out why, but this is your word for ball. We still call it a ball. And you must still think it starts with a “b” since you say “A – APPLE, B – PETTIT, C- CAT” etc. when reciting your abc’s. Why? Why on earth? And when will you start using the real word? For now I’m just going to assume some of the Baby Einstein lessons in Spanish have kicked in and you’re trying to say “pelota.” Here’s hoping that by the time I write birthday letter #3, you’ll have moved on from that one…
- You are a truly fearless world explorer. I watch in horror as you run, climb, and generally plow your way through life without so much as blinking an eye. Meanwhile, your mama just beams with pride. I have learned so much from both of you in this regard. You both remind me every day to approach life without fear and just to jump in.
- Your adventurous ways are on full display when we’re at the beach, or any other fence-free environment. You run barefoot through the yard, into the bushes, under trees, and out onto the sand, directly into the water. And then you turn right around and run back the way you came without a care in the world. Sorry about that time I was too busy taking action photos to prevent your face-plant. Though I’m not sure you noticed; you never even batted an eye…just wiped the sand off your hands and kept on running.
- This year you got sick for the first time. (And before you readers start typing your comments, yes – we do know how truly blessed we are to have such a healthy boy. We thank the stars every day.) Once I realized that you weren’t seriously ill and started recognizing the signs of an impending up-chuck, everything was ok. And I hate to say it, son, but it was better than ok. For 4 days, you just wanted to lay with your mama and me. We held you for hours in a way that we hadn’t been able to since you were a baby, and haven’t been able to do since. I’d never wish that you were sick, but I know it’s going to happen. And now I know what a special time that can be, and how warm it felt…not just your feverish little body melted into my arms, but how warm and just right it felt having you turn to us for comfort.
- Whether it’s a new word (ahem…if you can say “fork,” you can use one), a random unsolicited hug around my neck, or when I walk in to wake you up in the morning and find that you’ve stripped off your pj’s, you still surprise me. By the way, that includes the tantrums you now occasionally throw in public. I’m never ready for those.
- One of the most important lessons I learned from you this year is that Monsters, Inc. is a true story, or at least part of it is (if you haven’t seen it, watch it; I’m not going to apologize for “spoiling’ a 13-year-old movie). Sully & Mike learn that a child’s laughter can supply the energy required to power all of Monstropolis. And they’re right. At the end of a day, no matter how long or frustrating it has been, I come home to you and mama. When we sit on the floor and read books or play with
Big Battery Drainer Elmo…I mean Big Hugs Elmo, your tiny voice energizes me. When you crawl on me and make sweet little pretend snoring noises while we “nap,” I’m totally refreshed. And when I get to exercise my right as your parent to find and take advantage of all your tickle spots, your uncontrollable giggling completely re-charges my battery. It’s exhausting being a parent. But just when I think I can’t go another step, your laugh pushes me on. Thanks for that.
Rigby, you have changed who I am. And what’s more, you’ve changed who I want to be. I am forever better for having you around. You’re my boy, blue.